Change Sometimes Takes More than Walking Away from a Relationship.

"Real change entails not just intellectual understanding of our patterns but also deep emotional acknowledgment of their allure. Only then can we begin to willfully resist their draw — and open the door to a new and healthier reality," Daniel L. Shapiro

Full Article: https://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/10/opinion/of-dating-and-diplomacy.html